The Blog

Words between sessions.

Reflections on psychology, the body, and feeling alive again.

October 29, 2026

The Illusion of Change: The New Trap of Our Generation

We’ve learned to create the illusion of change: endless self-reflection, meditation, exercise, and self-improvement—yet our lives remain the same. We keep living according to a plan that once worked, forgetting to ask ourselves what we really want and what brings us joy. Maybe it’s time to stop endlessly trying to fix ourselves and start truly enjoying our lives?

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October 25, 2026

I Was So Good at Being the Man That I Forgot I Wanted to Be the Woman.

While my husband is putting the bed together, I’m writing this post and suddenly realize that I’ve almost forgotten how I used to do everything on my own: assemble furniture, fix things, and handle any issues that came up. It’s not that I don’t know how to do those things anymore. It’s just that one day I realized I wasn’t playing my own role. I figured out what kind of woman I wanted to be, what role I wanted to live out in my life, and I started choosing it. And the most interesting thing is that it was exactly then that men began to appear in my life—men with whom I can be exactly that kind of woman. Sometimes, to change a relationship, you first need to change your own role within it.

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